Relationship breakdown?

When a relationship is struggling or has broken down it can feel very difficult to know how to manage emotions, practicalities, what comes next or even how you begin to move forward. 

Anxieties and stress arise as a result of uncertainty and potential worries about home and children. It can be an isolating time and therefore especially the time when support is the most valuable.

I can provide that support, guidance and practical assistance to help you to explore and understand your feelings and your onward path.

I have significant experience in breakdown and divorce in addition to understanding the practical and emotional uncertainties of this time.

Divorce coaching from a former divorce lawyer

Maybe you want to get divorced or separated - and maybe you don’t. Irrespective it’s important to understand what this looks like for you and how you want to approach this new ground.

Matrimonial law is, in part, a process and not based on the old regime of ‘fault’ any longer. Parties can present joint petitions for divorce if they so wish and the only proof required is that the marriage has irretrievably broken down. If one party believes the marriage has irretrievably broken down then it is difficult to defend that position.

Obviously there are are many other considerations, inclusive of children, home and finances - let alone emotional changes. I can work with you and support you along this journey.

Whether you are unsure if you want to leave the relationship, need help to take a step in either direction, or are looking for support through the separation process, I am here for you every step of the way.

  • The inevitable turmoil we experience when a relationship is struggling or at an end is hugely difficult to manage. I will listen to your story, understand, and support you in identifying the road forward and option that best suits you.

  • Maybe you will want to separate or divorce or maybe you won't. The ability to deeply explore your feelings is central and crucial to your outcome. Whichever your eventual choice I will help you to enact that decision.

  • Once your decision is made there follows a time of reflection and discovery of what your path forward might look like and how you choose to go forward. I will support you on this new journey, working alongside you to enhance your self awareness and support you in your choice.